Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Balance
Everything in our life has to harmonize. We have to make personal balance inside to make the rest work. Before we want to love and assist someone else we need to work in our own needs. We cannot be good parents, good at work or in a relationship until we don’t have a good relationship with ourselves.
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Thank you for posting this is very inspirational and an eye opener.
ReplyDeleteCompleteness and fulfillment is the most important and it can be complete by giving gratitude for our own life.
ReplyDeleteYou make an important point Rafaela. We are taught to put others before us, but if we do not fill ourselves first then whatever we give others is empty of us. When we give from this place of emptiness, people cannot feel our energy or love in whatever we have given or done for them, so they find themselves pestering us for more. They feel gypped. They want to feel the fullness of our love in what we do or give them. They may only feel this emptiness unconsciously, but they do sense it. We must fill ourselves with our love first then what we give to others is filled with us, which feels far more satisfying. Presently, many people do not love themselves, so it is like we are giving each other wonderfully gift-wrapped empty boxes. Not much pleasure in opening them. Fill whatever you do for others with your love. This can only happen when you love yourself.
ReplyDeleteMy Light goes with you, Dan
http://www.buildingalegacyofpeace.org/
Thank you Dan for offering your light in my web page. I agree with you and this quote: “The only relationship to focus on is between you and you” Abraham Hicks
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